“Most people know what they do. Many know how. Few know why.” These are the words of my mentor coach, David Krueger, MD. and they ring true regarding my legal career. I know I am a lawyer and also that I am good at what I do. What I struggle with is “why.” Is it the money? The status? Or merely because I have been doing this for over 20 years?
Like many of you, when I went to law school I did so because I believed I could help change the world. Then I ran into the realities of paying off student loans, buying a house, and making sure I could cover payroll for my staff. Somewhere along the line I forgot the passion that drew me to law school in the first place. I had lost my “Why.”
When I started contemplating the why, I came to the realization that in order for me to be the best at whatever I want to do, I need to figure out Why I am doing it. It is an ongoing discovery and has aided me in both my legal career and my coaching career. Here are three ways to help you discover your own “Why.”
Purpose
It is a large question, but one you have to answer. What is your purpose? Are you here merely to make money and consume, or is there a larger calling for you? Deciding on that larger calling can direct your outlook and help you find a greater purpose in your life and career.
Strengths
Think about your strengths and weaknesses. Are you good in court, but rely on forms when it comes to paperwork? Do you love helping clients, but despise the day to day business management issues? Look to things that you are good at and where your weaknesses lie. From there you can look at ways to use your abilities in a more satisfying and rewarding way.
How Do You Want to Be Remembered
Probably the biggest motivator to give you a “why” is to ask yourself “When you are dead and gone, how do you want your family and friends to remember you?” Some people will answer that they want to be remembered as the best lawyer in the state. Others will say they want to be remembered for getting to the Supreme Court. For me, I want to be remembered as I helped others with unwavering loyalty.
Contact me for complimentary 30 minute session to find out how a coach can help you discover your why!