Fresh out of law school and studying for the bar exam, I did something which was necessary at the time, but probably not the wisest career builder. I took a temp job selling ride tickets at the county fair. The most memorable customer was the dean of the law school. He came up to the […]
Author Archive | Kyle Dukelow
How to Overcome the Frustrations of an Adversarial Occupation
I recently completed an arbitration in a hard fought case. The results were OK, but neither I nor my client was satisfied that justice was served. While I can see why the three arbitrators ruled the way they did, I cannot dispute my resentment of the process. Despite this, I still believe in the […]
3 Ways to Beat the Fear of Public Speaking
My wife and I were out with friends for dinner the other night when one friend expressed reservations about an upcoming public speaking presentation that she agreed to give. The presentation will be at a national convention of book store owners and she was nervous to the point that her doctor prescribed medication to slow […]
How a Coach is Like a Personal Trainer
I have been working with a personal trainer the last four weeks in an effort to become a better swimmer. My trainer and IĀ started with the basics including determining how my breathing technique was. It came as no surprise to me that it was terrible. My trainerĀ also examined my kicks, which were […]
Small Steps
Have you ever had an idea that was so big, so brilliant, so life-changing that you were sure it would be a success? Did you follow up on that idea? If not, was it because the process to get there was too overwhelming? If so, then you are like most people. Many people have […]
Encore Careers for Lawyers
The feelings associated with leaving the practice of law can run the gamut from exhilarating to terrifying. This article is for those that fall on the latter end of the spectrum. When you spend your entire legal career networking, learning, and fine-tuning your craft, the idea of leaving it all behind can leave you […]
5 Reasons You Need a Vacation
Did you take a vacation last year? If you are like 42% of other Americans, the answer is “No.” This is absolutely mind-boggling given all the ways that a vacation is beneficial to one’s life. Let’s look at five ways that vacations are helpful: 1. Relax and Recharge: Yes, I know, it can be stressful […]
SMART Goal Setting for the Transitioning Attorney
You have had it with the corporate law firm! You are sick of billable hours, kissing ass, and being treated as a disposable product. You have decided that the time is right for you to go out on your own. Now that you’ve made the decision, what do you do next? Successfully transitioning from a […]
Plan the Work and Work the Plan
Summer is over and it is time to get back to work. I don’t mean your job, I mean get back to work on planning your transition. Whether it is the transition from student to lawyer, public servant lawyer to private law practice, or out of the practice entirely, you will need to set goals […]
Avoiding Burnout
One of the most difficult decisions for lawyers to make is when to get out of the practice of law. We tell ourselves “I’ll get out when it’s no longer fun.” We claim “I just need to settle one more big case, then I’m outta here.” We think “I’m too young to retire, but too […]